Just make up your mind and do it.
I just made up my mind and did it.
I’m going to be honest, it’s one of the most powerful things I think we can do in therapy, and in life. Think about it, we are consumed with struggles, frustrations, repetitive thoughts, and anxiety.
Let me share a quick example first.
I have struggled to truly take consistent action in this business venture, there is so much going on around this business as I learn it, that I even stopped blogging about it.
But when I heard this tonight, it was so good, I had to put some pen to paper (or for you literal folks out there, keyboard to word document). Think about it, as a man, we now the challenges we have to work through, the goals we set, we just have a hard time doing it.
Let’s think about this quote,
“I just made up my mind and did it.” The first part I just made up my mind, can be applied to whether I need to lose weight, or I need to save for that vacation. Guys let’s face it, we know what we need to do.
What I love about it is that our mind is linked to action, not an emotion, not a block, not something that stops us. It says hey, we know we have to do it and we just do it.
Because I love this quote so much, tonight, I’m just not going to post this blog post, I’m going to something I have been pondering, I’m going to do it, I’m going to launch my Instagram page.
Also, a quick thank you to my true ten, for this post.
You see, this therapy service
is more than just working with men in their dating and relationship lives. Yes, I want you to enjoy them, be happy with them, and have the best ones possible.
But, (which means more importantly), I want you to grow and work through all the challenges you have to and set all of the goals you set for yourself.
If you are single and dating, and see that girl just make up your mind she’s cute, and do it, “Hey, you’re cute, what's your name.”
If you are in a relationship you know you can’t be jealous, needy and insecure, so just say it, I’m not going to be jealous or needy when she is out with her friends, I’m just gonna do it, “Have fun babe.”
If you are married and angry, and just not happy, then just do it, “Honey, I really want to fix this, I love you, let’s work on our marriage together,”
So guys,
I have to just do it, and hope this blog post helps.
Here’s a link to my Instagram page
