I learned a long time ago, you have to figure out why you were put otherwise then what are we doing here?
Yes, life is totally meant to be enjoyed, go on vacations, go on a cruise, eat nice dinners, go out drinking and have fun.
To keep it real,
I’m a therapist by profession, but I still have been searching for what I’m meant to do, I launched a website that was more therapeutic, then I launched one that was therapy but with the spin of dating and relationships, two things I’m absolutely passionate about.
Then I realized it, and it clicked, one of the main reasons why I started this blog, and this business is to truly help people overcome challenges. It just so happens those are the challenges I mastered and overcame, and want to work with those who need help in helping to overcome them.
Ironically overcoming challenges is something we all have to overcome, and also it kind of is what keeps us alive, helps us grow, and become our full potential.
Ironically enough, I’m lucky enough to have a girl who is completely cool with me dropping a line or two about her in my blog, I had to overcome having the confidence that I can truly date a girl that was my true Ten
And to put myself really out there I had to overcome the challenge that I could be in a relationship with my true ten, not just date her.
That’s enough about me let’s pay it forward,
What about you?
I’d love to know if you had to ask yourself,
“What challenge do I have to overcome?,”
What would that answer be, for a couple of clients I know it would be anger and being in an unhappy marriage.
For other clients it might be not feeling jealous or needy in their relationship.
For other clients it might be not gambling.
For some clients, it might be just being able to go out look at a girl, and say hey you’re cute, what’s your name?
While I’m a therapist by trade were all human,
I’m pretty sure we all have challenges we have to overcome. As a therapist I just work with you to overcome your challenges.
Here’s what I’m challenging (no pun intended), to do. Ask yourself that question
What challenge do I have to overcome?
I’m curious, what rolls right off the tongue, chances are the thing you said, that rolled right off your tongue has been eating at you for a while.
As a therapist, that’s my job to work with you to overcome that challenge that rolled right off your tongue.
Personally it just so happens the one I truly overcame this past year was knowing I was enough to date the type of person I always wanted to.
