Accept Yesterday as Feedback

using feedback to reach your goals.

First let’s keep it real,

Yesterday I had fun, but was not at my best. After a couple of clients cancelled yesterday I surprised my girl by showing up early for our date. I went to my favorite little local spot with her and a couple of drinks, probably two too many.

Well, I had three, so there ya go, two to money. 

So where’s the feedback?

Let’s look at it from professional life? For feedback

What could I have done better? Well I have to move this business forward, so that hour and a half I had free totally could or should have been spent on this website, specifically with google my business.  

What about the feedback in how I showed up?

I wanna do better, I don’t wanna drink to the point where I just go ummm did we really talk about that? Did I really bring that up? Why? Where’s the feedback, I wanna literally be able to hangout, have fun, and hookup. 

I got that from someone who had a huge influence on my life Corey Wayne. You can check out his work and website here. 

So what’s the feedback you may have gotten yesterday?

Did your boss or supervisor say something about your work? If they did it, it’s going to suck, but guess what, that was yesterday…

Move it forward

Hey boss, I've been thinking about yesterday, I want to make sure I do better so we don’t have that conversation or review again, so please always feel free to give me any feedback on my work. 

What about in your dating life?

Did a girl not answer you, you are really into? 

What’s the feedback? Man, I hate that feeling, I gotta exert some more control in my dating life, next time one call a week, extend that invitation for a date, and take it or leave it. 

What about you financially?

Review  your spending from yesterday, What am I doing here, with 60 dollars automatically charged to streaming services I barely watch. Maybe I don’t want these anymore, only because this isn’t really what I love. 

Maybe you wanna fill your life up with people and experiences you really love, not things to do on a Monday night to watch Love is blind Romania edition (actually, I kind of wonder if there is a Romania edition). 

So accept feedback, that’s what yesterday is for, and use it to create a little bit of a plan today, for how you want to move your life forward. 

For those interested in my therapy and dating and relationship services, you can click here to book a session with me. 

My availability is reserved to a limited part time basis on Thursday Nights and Virtual only. 

If you’d like to read more about my story, and how this business started click here. 

And best of all if you’d like to send me an email to book a date (day and time), to tell me your story, click here. 

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