Dating and Relationships: Try this One Trick in Online Dating
As I start out writing my dating and relationship blog and venturing on this new business, sharing my story, learning your story, and helping and guide you to what you want, my goal is to simply put myself out there, and see how my story can help you.
So without further delay, take those dating apps, and do this….
One message a day!
Boom that’s it, literally send one message a day to each girl you’d like, but only one, along with only swiping once a day as well. Here are the two critical things that come out of this, from both an interpersonal standpoint and also how it helps keep your emotions in check when navigating dating.
Personal Example Quick: First, to keep it real, this is exactly what I did during that time of my life, I wound up going out with a girl, who I’m proud to call my girlfriend and have her on my arm. Trust me guys this shit works!
1. You immediately become different! Girl’s are hounded daily with the same guys, who send two or three messages a day, and vice versa, if a girl is talking to ten guys and each guy responds the same day, or several times a day, he is available!
2. You are different, by you sending one message a day, she has to go….MMM (not MMM Bop) but something is different about this guy, and just
3. Also by swiping on profiles, sending one message a day and logging in literally once a day, you create indifference for yourself, and reduce your own Emotional Thermometer.
4. The Hard Part
Ok Great when are you Free (When the girl says this), it might be tempted to read that and go ok, answer and set up the date.
WAIT!! Waiting shows your consistent no matter what, disciplined, and also not desperate and not going to act different now that the possibility of a date is in front of you!
5. By only doing one thing, you’ll spend more time and more emotional energy thinking about and doing what is truly important to you, going to the gym, using your money to do fun things, nurturing your friendships, and also pursuing that thing that really makes you smile
Next Steps
So Shoot me an email with any comments, or suggestions, or even questions.
1. I’d love to answer your question in an upcoming blog.
2. As I start out with this blog and business, I encourage you all to come along and grow with me.
3. If you’d like, you can schedule a free-15 minute phone call, just so I can hear your story, and see how I can help, and if we can work together.
My rates are only cash based starting at 100.00/session (50 Minutes).
My story will slowly come out, more importantly if you are reading this blog, I hope one day to pay my story forward, hear about yours, and be there along the way.
