What do you absolutely have to do? Why?

What do you absolutely have to do? Why?

Let’s keep it real

For instance: I have to lose 20-25 pounds, why? Because that’s when I know I’ll look my best, and I want to be my best for the people I help, and serve, and also for that cute girl I call my girl who might be reading this article. 

And while I have other things I absolutely have to do, this is the one I’m choosing to share for now. 

This is a blog and a service that started out as a dating and relationship blog, from guys who are single and dating, men who are married or in a relationship , and even couples counseling service. And while this is totally my favorite clientele to work with, as a service, this has to be more. It has to be a service that truly addresses all of the areas of someone’s life, whether it’s being healthy, personal finance, your career and your personal life (dating and relationships). These my friends are what I call on the burners on the stove top. . 

The truth is, usually one of these areas has an emotional investment, or cost, or frustration that is taking a toll on us, that is constantly on the forefront of our mind, sometimes it’s more than one. This is a service that truly is about putting all of those areas together, so that you can live the type of life you want to live, I know it is for me. 

Guys and girls, let’s be clear, the goal isn’t perfection, it’s never going to be, or as I like to say, the lights are never always green at the same time. However you can always move forward. I know when I made my favorite mistake, paying a British man 2400 dollars, to make my tinder great again (please this is not a trump joke, I don’t care who you voted for) my personal life was extremely frustrating (dating to be exact), and I thought paying for a quick fix would just make happy. 

But guys and girls back to you, we all have a reason how or why we came across the blog, a reason that we were reading this blog and were connecting with it. I know I had a reason to pay a whole lot of money to take a dog picture (smh). We all have a story, we all have goals, things we want to work on, must get better and must improve. What is that thing, that bothers you, you think about, or you’re just frustrated with?

Are you here because you want a better relationship with your wife or partner?

Are you here because you are extremely frustrated with your dating life?

Are you here because you are highly motivated, and just want to live your life to your full potential?

Guys, we are not perfect, we all want more out of life, or the most we can, we all want to reach our full potential, so we can live a great life, and a life that is our dream, or damn close to it. The truth is it might be six years, or six months away, no matter which one it is, let’s get the ball rolling, because there are no quick fixes.

If you want to turn your relationship around, you can totally do it in six months, if you want to save for that awesome vacation, you can do it in six months, if you want to completely make progress on your career or your business, you can totally make that progress in six months. Hey we're gonna be somewhere in six months from now, might as well be happy, closer, and making progress on the things we want in life. 

This is more than a blog, this is a connection to you the reader, that I plan on putting out there as the human experience. A connection that is based on why you’re reading this, your story, and then connecting it to the wealth of knowledge I’ve gained along the way, along with the tools of my trade as a therapist, to truly help you reach your goals, and get everything you want out of life. 

Whether that primary goal or emotional thermometer is about turning your relationship around, navigating a problem at work, or being single, and dating a woman you could have only dreamed of. 

Guys and girls, let’s do it. Tell me why you’re here, tell me your story. 

Click here to send me an email with some days and times you are available to tell me your story. I’ll reply back within one business day and get your appointment set up. 

So guy’s what’s your story?