O.k. So you did it, Now What
Last night was awesome. Not only did I have so much fun with my friends, but it was almost like that blog I wrote really came to light.
I never want to come across like I am shouting down, or better than.
The whole point of this service is for me to put out there that we are all having human experiences.
In this case and business, I just really enjoy blogging and talking about the world of dating and relationships, especially as a therapist.
I went out with one of my “Coaching clients” and I said look, no matter what, you are going to go home, so no matter what when you go home do you want to say I did it, or I didn’t do it.
Yes I gave him the line, you’re cute, what’s your name, and guess what, he did it. I’ll leave the exact amount of times out of here, but damn I was proud, I’ll just say several lol.
But now what?
That’s kind of what I want you to ask yourself as the reader, if you did something yesterday, you’ve been putting off, or that has been causing you pain or distress or avoiding for a while, now what?
Do you need to build on it, do you need to expand it? Do you need to keep doing a little bit more?
Look, my client and definitely myself are no pick-up artists, if you want that go watch Mystery, or read the Game by Neil Strauss,
I’m also no Corey Wayne or Todd V. I’m just finding my voice, my therapist voice if you will..
Back to last night:
I told my client, we’ll figure out the rest after, but the habit started tonight, that was awesome, and I’m truly proud.
So when I said, what’s next? He looked me right in the eye and said we’ll gotta keep doing it, go back at it again tomorrow.
Guy’s go at your own pace, if you asked one girl, for her name, and feel the most important thing is do it again, then go do it! Awesome, and call it a day, then go on and live your life.
If you feel you have to ask two girls what their name is today to move it forward, sweet then do it, trust yourself.
Guy’s if you are married and really trying to improve your marriage, be present with your wife, even if it's for 15 to 20 minutes when the kids are in bed, hey babe, how was your day.
Say it again, then the next day, then the next day, offer your wife, your time and attention, just give it to her.
If you really want to improve your marriage it truly is the little things, that’s the little habit you can build everyday.
If you’re a guy who is interested in working with me one on one you can read more about my services for single and dating men here, and/or email me for a free conversation.
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