How Dating Apps Help You Enjoy Your Dating Life
If you’ve ever browsed around this website, or are familiar with my work, you know I talk a lot about dating apps, dating profiles, and burner phones.
But how exactly is a dating app, and profile supposed to help you enjoy your dating life?
Simple, this profile is meant to give you the most, and best number of options possible.
You get the greatest number of options possible with the matches you get, the likes you receive, and messages that come in, these all add up to options.
How does this profile stack the deck in your favor?
By having that girl look at it, and say yes. She says yes over and over again, seeing each picture and each prompt, causing her to like it, or match it.
Since the girls who do see your profile are consistently matching it and liking it, your profile goes up the top of the dating app leaderboard.
You are getting matches, messages, and likes, which in the land of dating apps means options. Options for what you ask, options for dates.
How do options help? They put the numbers in your favor.
Each match, message, and like will not turn into a date, but they do give you numbers, which are options for a date, which eventually will work out in your favor.
This is exactly what having an awesome dating profile is supposed to give you, numbers and options to go on dates.
Your current dating profile
Your current dating profile might give you three to five options between matches, numbers, and likes per day.
Maybe one or two of them really excited you, such as having something in common, or just being really cute, or hot.
With a little bit of luck, and a tight game, maybe you went out with one of those girls.
This is why a Dating App is a tool to help you enjoy your dating life
It is a tool designed to increase the numbers and options you have to go on dates.
How does it help you with your dating life? By giving you more chances to go on dates, with more matches, messages, and likes, than you had before.
Not only do you have more options for your dating life, but you have a chance to get more practice and more comfortable in your dating life.
A chance to practice what?
To practice setting the dates, leading the dates, and making moves on the dates. A chance to be more comfortable on each date, as if it’s just hanging out with a friend.
Now will all dates be that comfortable, as it feels like you are hanging out with a good friend? No.
But with enough practice, the dates that are supposed to feel this way, will!
Don’t forget a Dating App is just a tool, not the Key
What do I mean? A dating app is a tool, just like your phone is a tool to use social media, a credit card is a tool to make purchases, and a weight is a tool to help you with a great workout and get in great shape.
A dating app is a tool no more than that dumbbell for a great workout, or that credit card, for that fun purchase.
At the end of the day the dating app is meant to help you with your dating life, but it is not the key to enjoying your dating life.
So what is the key to enjoying your dating life?
The key to enjoying your dating life is you!
It’s your actions. It’s your ability to go up to that girl you think is cute, and say, you’re cute, what’s your name.
It’s your ability to ask that girl out with confidence, and decisiveness.
It’s your ability to go for that kiss, even when you’re not sure she’ll kiss you back.
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