How to Gain Confidence in Your Dating Life.
Today’s blog post is all about those who are single and dating,
And helping you increase your confidence in your dating life. Here’s the trick and the non-starter, unless there is something you are willing to do differently and consistently, I can’t help you, and you can’t help yourself.
However, if you are tired of a lack of results, growing frustration, and not being able to fully enjoy your dating life, then this is a blog post that may help. As long as you are willing to do the simple things for yourself that build confidence.
Let me keep it real for a second. One thing I am working on to increase my confidence in this business is filming YouTube Videos. If I don’t do the simple thing like filming myself, and publishing it, then I am not going to be more confident.
I want the same for you in your dating life. I want the thing you are willing to do over and over again, just to build that confidence. Then over the course of time, we or even better YOU, can refine your approach for more growth.
Growth really starts with the easy, simple little thing you are willing to do in your dating life: day in and day out, or weekend out and weekend out
Now if you are someone that is content to swipe dating apps, and have dating apps be the main ingredient in your dating life, then I can’t help you.
But if you are someone who wants the action you take to be the main ingredient in your dating life, then I can help you, and you can definitely help yourself.
If you feel you are doing more swiping on dating apps then talking to girls I want you to ask yourself, are you really enjoying your dating life
Chances are you aren’t. Why? Because a dating App is an ingredient in your dating life, your actions are way more important than a dating app- Actions are the main ingredient.
I want you to focus on the things you can control in your dating life and repeat so you can feel confident and enjoy your dating life.
“You’re Cute, What’s Your Name.”
Ultimately that is a “Line” I came up with when I was just the most confident and having the most fun in my dating life, when I was out and about.
It’s not some great pick up line, that led to each girl I spoke with getting a number and date (that’s an outcome, that’s a bonus if you will), some did, some didn’t.
You’re cute, what’s your name is what I want for you. I want you to be able to express your interest in a girl when you are out, the more you do it the more confident you feel, the more you enjoy dating, it really is that simple.
We’ve all been there and have those moments where you shrivel up and find yourself not taking action and talking to that girl, almost feeling mad at yourself after, just to find yourself repeating the same patterns over and over again. I want more for you.
Maybe it has been months since you either went out, or just went up to a girl and said “Hey, What’s Your Name?”
I write these articles, because I know exactly now just what it’s like to have those moments of freezing up, and I also want you to enjoy your dating life. You do this with confidence, you can only build confidence with actions.
When you don’t do it, you are not taking action in what you can control.
You just have to be able to take action, and put your interest out there. Taking action builds confidence. When you are confident in something you are enjoying it more.
I write these blog posts and have built this business with my intent to help men do the simple things that are really simple, but emotionally hard. But really do add up to confidence, enjoyment and fulfillment.
For example, I want to grow my business so I can help as many people as I can. In order for me to grow my business I need to enjoy it, and feel confident. I’m very confident in writing blog posts, but YouTube is hard for me.
There’s several elements that make me feel not so confident in filming and posting for YouTube, but I can’t let those feelings stop me. Just like you can’t let those feelings stop you from going up to that girl you think is really cute.
I really believe life is simple, we make it complicated.
I work with you to show you simple repeated actions build confidence, and that leads to enjoyment.
Honestly speaking, are you really going to grow in your dating life, if you are not enjoying it?
In my opinion not really. You are going to come off as a miserable bastard who is playing games, more than a confident man who is just expressing his interest.
If you are truly content and having fun in your dating life, you’ll come off as cool, calm, and fun, and definitely bold when you do express your interest.
In my opinion the only way you can present this confidence naturally is with repeated action that builds confidence. If you don’t take the action you truly want too, I think it deflates your confidence.
I want to add one more little thing: The reason why I share my current story
While my transformation in dating, and being with my true ten, is why I started this business, it’s not the whole story. Our stories are always being written.
I share my story now with growing this business for three reasons.
I truly believe as humans we are all growth oriented (whether you want to admit it or not), you always want to grow in some part of your life- especially if you are reading a blog post like this.
I also believe that we’re no different. We both wanted the same growth in our dating lives. I’m just lucky I got to experience it, and you will too.
I deal with the same insecurities in growing this business, they just come up in different ways than dating (like YouTube) so why not share it with you, we are all human after all.
I work with you to develop the confidence you need to enjoy your dating life.
I work with you to simply figure out what your growth looks like. What action is simple and easy that you can do to build your confidence in dating. Whether it is just going out, going out and smiling, or even telling a girl you think she is really cute.
I work with you to repeat it, and see that nothing bad happened, you're getting better, and also you are able to chill out as you are doing this?
Guys come on, isn’t that what you want, to take the action you want to that is in a chill way? Not where it feels like you are constantly in fight or flight.
Isn’t the action you want to take something where you know you are making progress and feeling better about your dating life?
I work with you to show you can work through any problem or challenge in life, whether it is dating, health, personal finance, or your business and career.
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