How to really achieve growth?
Usually the solutions to our problems are simple. And to be honest, it’s not the first time I’ve written about this.
While usually the simple solution is a repeatable action, one thing does make it hard our emotions.
Let’s look at some common goals we have, or as I like to say the burners on our stove top.
Getting in great shape, being better with personal finance, advancing our career/ school, and dating and having amazing personal and romantic relationships.
The truth is you can achieve and make progress everyday on all of those goals, it’s just a question of doing the little things, day in and day out, the simple solution if you will.
But guys, wouldn’t we be less frustrated if we just took a little action?
Like going to the gym an hour before work, after work.
Wouldn’t we be less frustrated if we just hopped on the starmaster or treadmill for 30 minutes, hit some weights and called it a day.
I certainly hope if you are reading this, the answer is yes.
What about our personal finance? Sure it can seem overwhelming, but at the end of the day money is just math.
Would we not feel better if we had a budget that was simple, just stuck to it.
You might not be on that fun vacation right now, but I guarantee if you stick to your plan you will be. You’ll not just be on that fun vacation, you’ll be there in style and way less stressed.
Look at the end of the day we are all having a human experience.
My goal with these blog posts is yes to direct traffic to my website, but also to document the human experience we all have and ways we can move our goals, and lives forward.
After all guys, I want you to enjoy life, not be unhappy, and frustrated. I want to fuel that desire for change and growth.
If you are telling me there are simple little things I can do day in and day out to enjoy my life and move forward then I’m going to do it.
And while my service focuses on men in relationships, my blog posts are about personal growth.
It’s about how I grow as a person and how I connect with you to help you grow.
Why? Because it’s not just in how I grow, it’s how I grow my business, day in and day out, one little thing at a time.
For you guys, it’s the same thing, whether you want to date your true ten, or finally enjoy your relationship or marriage the way you know you should.
It’s the simple little thing day in and day out is being able to say, “You’re cute, what’s your name”
It’s the calling that girl you went out with to ask her out again, despite the emotions you feel that stop you from doing so.
It’s the way you greet her when you walk in that door from work, that smile and just, “Hey babe, how was your day.” Despite the emotions you feel around your marriage or your relationship.
It’s in how you give your time, attention and presence, and just listening.
If you want to be in a truly awesome relationship with your wife or girlfriend it is no different, simple little things truly go a long way.
When she is out with her friends, leave her alone! She will come back, that emotion you feel will pass! That need to call or text, and angst. it will pass.
Guys, I work with you to not just understand your frustrations. I help guide you as a therapist to understand why exactly you feel these emotions and do those simple things to work past them.
I work with you so when you come to therapy, work through your crap, get in and get out.
After all, life is meant to be enjoyed not in my therapy office.
My job is to understand the frustrations, create the plan, and hold you accountable to the simple actions to get you out of that therapy office.
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