Men Fix Things:

We Fix Things, that’s how you fix frustration

Today’s blog post is simply about what we do as men, we fix things. We fix things so we can enjoy them and reap the rewards of it and move past our frustrations with those things. 

Whether it’s your dating and relationship life, your health, or your job, career or business. That’s just what we kind of do. 

Our Experiences are No Different

Oh no I posted manual labor; I won’t be fixing that.

Look I get it, as a therapist, and just a regular guy, the things we have to fix we know we have to and can be frustrating. They can really weigh on us emotionally and even trigger us. 

If you’re single and dating, those emotions might weigh on you when you go out to a bar and kick yourself every time you don’t talk to that girl. Or maybe you really want to fix that dating profile. If you do, I have the service for you here. 

If you’re overweight or underweight, and get to your best in the gym, or in your overall health, those emotions can weigh on you seeing those clothes you used to fit in, or they fit a little tighter than they did a couple of weeks, or a couple of months ago. 

Let’s be honest guys, if you are single and dating clothes matter! And also, hitting the gym, and being your best will have you at the most confidence, after all that is the most attractive muscle. 

Anyways I digress, we fix our health too, by getting in the shape and reaching the goals we really want to get too. Let’s be honest, we fix things with certain variables, like time, and action. As a therapist that’s one thing I work with you on, to get you focused on the time and action needed to get you started fixing things. 

Life is simple, we make it complicated

My favorite part of being a therapist is that life is simple, we make it complicated, the actions we pick out are usually quite simple and have you going, “Yeah, of course I can do that.”

If you’re in a relationship and want to fix your behavior  so your girl is  head over heels in love with you, we do that too. Yes, it can be done, no there is no quick fix, but there are simple actions, time allotted to it, and a behavior that is repeatable so six months from now you are out of therapy and in love again. 

For those who do read this blog, might also be wondering what it is about the six months that I keep saying? Why do I keep bringing it up?

Because as a therapist, and in my own human experience, you can take simple actions to make them sustainable, and six months later you immediately feel and see the results, whether it’s in your dating life, relationship or marriage or even personal finance. 

Simple Actions Fix Things

That’s why I always preach simple actions, like, “You’re cute, What’s Your name?” Or for those in a relationship, “Have fun babe.” Or my favorite for married men, “Hey baby, How was your day.?” Really? Oh wow? Tell me everything. Then just give her your undivided attention. 

The same simple actions for those who want to get in better shape. Let’s carve out time first to hit the gym, do the simple things, then move on to running a triathlon (ok I’m clearly kidding, I don’t want to run, and definitely not a triathlon). 

Even starting this business guys, this is a blog, a simple action, I just put it a little bit forward every day, a simple blog.

So men, we do fix things. We don’t fix them overnight, but we do fix them with our time and actions. 

For Further Reading and More Fixing.

If you’d like to start fixing things, whether it’s a dating profile, your relationship or your marriage you can read about each of those services in the links above. Click Here to read more.

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And if you would like to start fixing things, you can contact me here.