Single and Dating: What is Game to You?
When we think of, “Game,” we might think of one’s success in talking to women at bars and how many numbers he gets. But really it is about how he handles that situation within himself.
Does he show up with confidence? Is he direct, decisive, and get right to the point? Is he putting his interest out there in a genuine authentic way? Or is he being creepy and hiding it? Does he know when to ask for the number and then to zip it after, so the girl reveals her interest? Most of all, can he be ok with rejection, or does he let it cripple him with fear, doubt and inaction.
Now as a therapist, and a Dating Coach, I want you to get to that level of game.
Let me share a little bit of who helped me and how.
My truth is Corey Wayne’s book Three Percent Man completely changed my life.
For Corey, it taught me, “Game” is about being direct, decisive, and getting to the point. Game is about your actions, and her interest.
Now I want to take Corey’s work, my therapist background, and lived experience to tell you what I want, “Game” to be for you.
It’s your ability to be direct and decisive
It’s knowing when to ask for that girl's number, not some running script in your head that the conversation is dying.
It’s about asking a question like a name, or number, showing your interest, and then shutting up to see what her interest is.
It’s about that moment after the interaction ends where you go, “Ok that wasn’t that bad.”
It’s about that, “That wasn’t so bad, there really is no shame, I’ll go talk to another girl.”
It’s your version of being yourself and saying a compliment in your heart, “You’re cute (compliment), What[s your name (interest in her, and giving her a chance to show you her interest).
And for me it’s YOUR version of, “You’re cute, what’s your name.
How common is it to just be the guy who gets it?
Well according to Corey Wayne and his book it is Three Percent. Three out of 100 men fully understand women and can piece it all together, from pickup, to dating to relationships, to truly be in that amazing awesome relationship.
Maybe it is three percent of the population, or maybe it’s more, but they fall apart in the dating, and the relationship part.
More importantly do you want to be one of those men who is just able to do it, or one of the others who just don’t.
So ask yourself, "Do you want to be able to grow into this person?
Chances are if you are reading this page, the answer is yes, and you’ve likely been ready for quite some time.
If you want to get this part of your life right, and truly be in the relationship of your dreams, I highly encourage you to read Corey’s book.
Corey’s work truly helped me get through a time in my life, where all I wanted was to get this part of my life right.
He not just helped with the “Game” part of talking to girls, he helped me manage my emotions when dating the girls I liked. Then I really had to manage them when I dated my dream girl, now she’s mine.
I want you to read Corey’s book, so he can change your life. I’d also really love it, if you could read that book and realize as a therapist, I can really help you implement it, practice it and grow with it.
If you are thinking about growing into your best, in your single and dating life, you can contact me here and schedule your free call. Click Here
