Why being average in dating helps you and your dating profile?

In today’s video I talk about how dating apps, and profiles are a great resource to help our dating lives. I talk about how you can use a profile that has a girl saying yes after each picture and prompt. I also talk about how to balance it with our actions that are really the important part of improving and growing in our dating lives.

‍Guys, Imagine a Dating Profile…

It has six good pictures. You test them on Photofeeler, and each picture is at least a six.

What about your prompts? They are fun and punchy. They make the girl looking at them you think and feel you have one or two things in common. And you present yourself as someone who loves their life and has their crap together.

How does that sound? I hope it sounds pretty good if you are reading this. That is exactly, what my Dating Profile Checklist is all about.

This is a profile done for you, that shows you exactly how to make a profile for yourself so that when a girl is scrolling down the profile, she is saying yes to each picture. It’s also designed so each prompt has her either smiling, a quite chuckle, or saying mmm, okay, or maybe even, “Yes.”

This! Is how we get the girl to double click, or swipe right, and eventually match.  You must get yes after yes, after yes.

Now, how do we do it,

While my dating profile is laid out in such a way that it explains how you can replicate each picture by taking the pictures yourself, it is also written in a way that shows how you can make these pictures your most true self without feeling like you are just copying me or someone else.

The only thing left for you to do is take the pictures. Go out and do it. Do yourself a favor please. Do not A.I. these pictures, or Chat GPT them for a rooftop background, steakhouse background or different shirt colors. Please for the love, otherwise you really don’t want to grow, and just want a quick fix. I’m sorry guys, there is no quick fix in therapy, or dating.

Besides you can’t A.I. or Chat GPT talking to that girl, asking her out, or going for the kiss on the date. It’s your dating life, not A. I’s.

Now in the coming weeks, I am working to simplify this dating profile checklist, so it is a shorter document. Most importantly, for now, when you do download it you will have immediate access to each article I have written that details how to take each picture the best way for yourself, along with the best prompts.  

If you are downloading after March 31st 2026, then you definitely have the new one, so you are good. You can download the checklist here.

This is the exact profile I used to match with, date, and be with my true ten.

Why is this profile free?

Because it is a guide, a tool, a resource. It is not meant to be a huge part of your dating life, it is meant to help your dating life, not to define it.

‍Guys, think about it, I want your dating life to be mastered with repeatable simple actions over and over again. Actions that create confidence. But it’s your actions that do this, and your confidence that needs to improve, only you can do that, not a phone, a dating app, or a dating profile.

Use this dating profile as a tool to help get you more matches, and dates. This dating app is simply helping with one part of your dating life, the chance to get more dates with matches and messaging. Your actions (asking girls out, talking to girls and kissing on dates) are way more important than this profile, that’s why this is free.

‍Remember guys, it’s your dating life, it’s your actions, not the girl that is across from you. They are there to have a good time, and see if they are interested in you, just like you are there to do the exact same, have a good time and see if you are interested in them

What do you guys think? agree or disagree?

Let’s be honest guys,

If you are reading a blog post like this, it is likely because you are struggling with some aspects of your dating life and it is causing you a lot of pain, whether it is talking to girls, asking them out, or going for the kiss. One of these really might not be working and you feel how much you want that to change.

To be honest, I struggled at one point with all three of them. That’s why as a therapist I work with men who are single and dating and have given them this profile for free.

Because I know how this profile helped me with matches, and dates, and how it was a great tool to have as I worked to overcome‍ each of those actions listed above.

Now I’m lucky to have reaped the rewards of it, by dating my true ten.

I had to realize a dating app was not going to make my dating life better, but it was going to help. I simply wanted the opportunity, but I had to do the work on my own, from the pictures to the dates, to the asking out, and oh yeah going for that kiss, no matter what.  

Who I work with?

I work with men who are single, in a relationship and married. Men who want to navigate any sort of pain they are experiencing in their dating life, relationship or marriage. I work with you to help you overcome all of the things I had to.

If you are single and dating and would like to download that exact dating profile I used to match with, date, and be in a relationship with my true ten, you can do so here.

If you are in a relationship or married and are interested in my services, you can read about each of them here.

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